The femosphere: Online pressures facing young women

Pink pills to depict the femosphere - online pressures facing young women

The femosphere offers young women belonging and a strategy for a world that can feel hostile. Therapists can offer something more durable: a relationship in which she does not have to perform and the space to discover what she actually wants.

The manosphere | What therapists need to know

Blue pills to depict The Manosphere - What Therapists Need to Know

Many boys and young men drawn to the manosphere have experienced rejection, humiliation or absent male figures, and the influencer becomes a surrogate father. We can’t compete by lecturing. We can compete by offering a relationship that is steady, respectful and unafraid of him.

The ‘soft life’ dilemma

A person in shadow behind billowing fabric and soft light to depict a soft life

An ethical soft life is not only about protecting your personal peace. It is also about asking what your peace makes possible. When your nervous system is less overwhelmed, you may have more capacity to care, speak up, organise, mentor, listen or support change in practical ways.

Endometriosis wins a BAFTA!

Endometriosis pain

This year’s BAFTA award for Best British Short Film went to ‘This is Endometriosis’.

What might seem like a fringe topic, save for those with uteruses, this marks an extremely positive move forward in the awareness, acknowledgement and treatment of this chronic illness – above and beyond pure statistics.

This film fills a gap in the narrative by offering a glimpse of the real, human messiness of lived reality of this chronic condition.

Thinking about therapy? | 7 important things to consider

Thinking about therapy

Deciding to start therapy is an exciting and brave thing to do. But it can also feel confusing and daunting initially, especially if you’ve never had therapy before. It can be difficult to picture what therapy is like or how to decide which therapist to work with.

One of our therapists, Zoe Yessaian, clearly remembers what it felt like before she started therapy, and wanted to share some useful starting points to consider and insight into what therapy can be like.

Learning to love my anxiety

Anxiety has been part of my life for as long as I can remember. It’s only recently that I’ve come to accept that it always will be.