Relationship and sex therapy in London

We offer relationship and sex therapy in London, from the Practice Rooms in Caledonian Road, Islington, starting at just £40.

And we have now expanded our London team with Gordon Birnie, who offers weekend appointments in Tooting.

Low cost relationship and sex therapy in North London

B&W photo of David Long, Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist in training

DAVID LONG

Associate (Trainee) Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

No two people or relationships are the same, so I work as an integrative therapist and draw on different techniques and interventions to provide an approach that is tailored to your needs.

I work with clients from all walks of life, and I have a particular interest in supporting those from gender, sexual, erotic and relationship diverse (GSERD) communities.

In-person sessions

  • £40 for individuals
  • £60 for relationships

I also offer online therapy

  • £35 for individuals
  • £55 for relationships
MORE ABOUT ME

I’m committed to offering you a therapeutic environment that is inclusive, respectful, and empowering. A safe space to address topics and situations that can be awkward, uncomfortable and, at times, painful, with kindness, warmth and empathy.

As a proud and openly positive gay cis man working in a mental health charity, I bring both professional training and experience, and lived experience to my practice. 

I’m a final-year student of a Level 7 Post-Graduate Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy.

I’m a Student member of COSRT, the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists

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B&W photo of Heidi Kwan, Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist in training offering low cost sex and relationship therapy

HEIDI KWAN

Associate (Trainee) Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

My practice is rooted in warmth, empathy, and non-judgment, creating a safe and supportive space for you to explore your experiences of sex, intimacy, identity, and relationships.


Whether you’re working through low desire, performance anxiety, communication difficulties, or exploring your sexual identity, I will work with you at your pace and with respect for your values and goals.

In-person sessions

  • £40 for individuals
  • £60 for relationships

I also offer online therapy

  • £35 for individuals
  • £55 for relationships
MORE ABOUT ME

I am committed to offering inclusive, affirming therapy that recognises and supports the many ways people experience and express sexuality and connection.

My approach is integrative, which means I draw on a range of therapeutic models, including CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy), to tailor our work to your unique needs and preferences.

I have a background in healthcare and am currently training as a Dietitian, as well as a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist. This gives me a holistic understanding of how physical health, emotional wellbeing and relational dynamics often intertwine. This perspective informs my work, especially when supporting clients navigating issues related to body image, sexual functioning, self-esteem, or the impact of life stage transitions on intimacy and relationships.

I’m in the final year of a Post-Graduate Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy, and I’m a Student member of COSRT, the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists.

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B&W photo of a woman: Ilka Kemp-Hall, Associate Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist in London

ILKA KEMP-HALL

Associate (Trainee) Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

I support low cost relationship and sex therapy in London to people experiencing difficulties like unreliable erections, delayed ejaculation, low desire, painful sex, vaginismus and orgasm difficulties.

I also work with compulsive sexual behaviour, fertility, sexual health, sexuality and sexual identity issues, non-monogamy and alternative relationship structures, kink and BDSM, as well as working with clients who are trans, non-binary, fluid or have non-conforming identities.

I believe that everyone should be able to be themselves and welcome all gender identities, sexual orientations, kink preferences and relationship structures.

In-person sessions

  • £40 for individuals
  • £60 for relationships

I also offer online therapy

  • £35 for individuals
  • £55 for relationships
MORE ABOUT ME

I draw from various models of therapy that recognise the uniqueness of people and work to help you feel more connected to your emotional, romantic and sexual intimacy.

I can help you process past experiences, and move towards the kind of relationship you want with sex, and to feel empowered in a way that feels right for you.

I understand how difficult it can be to have the language to talk about these topics and I hope you’ll be able to find the answers you need here.

I advocate a safe, warm, confidential and non-judgemental space to allow you to be authentic and express your thoughts and feelings freely and without reservation.

My role is to help you identify your sexually authentic self; the way you feel about sex, and the relationship you want to have with sex.

I draw from various models of therapy that recognise the uniqueness of the individual and work to help you feel more connected to your emotional, romantic and sexual intimacy. I can help you process the past experiences that are affecting you, and move towards the kind of relationship you want with sex, and to feel empowered in a way that feels right for you.

I hold a Foundation Certificate in Counselling and Psychotherapy and I’m in my final year at the Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology training as a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist.

I’m a Student member of COSRT, the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists.

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GORDON BIRNIE

Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapist

Being an integrative therapist means I draw upon a variety of approaches that I blend to suit the needs of each individual or relationship.

My background has involved extensive work overseas, so I’m sensitive to cultural differences and welcome diversity in relationships and sexualities.

I support clients from all different backgrounds and lifestyles, kinky, non-monogamous, and LGBTQIA+.

In-person sessions in Tooting

  • £80 for individuals
  • £100 for relationships

I also offer online therapy

  • £75 for individuals
  • £95 for relationships
MORE ABOUT ME

I offer therapy for a wide range of psychosexual issues including erectile difficulties, rapid (premature) or delayed ejaculation, loss of desire and differences in desire between partners, and painful sex.

In relationships I can help you improve communication, get better at resolving conflict, overcome infidelity, explore non-monogamy, learn how to work with jealousy and insecurities, and face life’s challenges together.

I’m also very passionate about encouraging more men to seek therapy when facing difficulties in their relationships, which, in part, influenced my own decision to retrain as a therapist.
I’m a member of the National Council of Integrative Psychotherapists and a Registered Member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT).

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B&W photo of Katie Callaghan, Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

KATIE CALLAGHAN

Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapist

I’m an empathetic and passionate Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with a background in Sexual Health Nursing.

I’m passionate about helping individuals and couples navigate healthy relationships and secure attachments, offering both one-on-one therapy and couple’s sessions.

I’m a proud LGBTQIA+ and kink-affirming therapist.

In-person sessions

  • £80 for individuals
  • £100 for relationships

I also offer online therapy

  • £75 for individuals
  • £95 for relationships
MORE ABOUT ME

I like to work using a Psychodynamic approach, considering how past experiences impact your current thoughts, feelings and actions. This is particularly helpful for people experiencing Sexual Problems or difficulties relationally.

My background in Sexual Health Nursing gives me extensive experience with Sexual Health conditions and supporting sexual assault survivors, offering a safe space for healing.

My work is rooted in creating a non-judgmental environment where you can explore and embrace your sexual identity without fear or shame.

Based in London, although originally from Yorkshire, I bring a deep understanding of the complexities of growing up in northern England and the cultural attitudes towards sex and sexuality.

I’m a Registered Member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT).

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B&W photo of Zoe Yessain, Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

ZOE YESSAIAN

Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapist

I’m an empathetic and passionate Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapist, working with both individuals and relationships.

I hold a strong belief that sexual and relationship problems are just as important as any other health issues and should be seen and treated with the same priority. Sex, intimacy and connection are basic human needs.

In-person sessions

  • £80 for individuals
  • £100 for relationships

I also offer online therapy

  • £75 for individuals
  • £95 for relationships
MORE ABOUT ME

I specialise in helping individuals and partners navigate challenges related to sex, desire, intimacy and communication. I work with all varieties of sexual and relationship issues, including all sexual dysfunctions such as erectile dysfunction and vaginismus. In addition, I also have a special interest in working with those affected by the impact of cancer on sex, intimacy and relationships.

I provide a safe, open, non-judgmental space where you can openly explore your feelings and concerns. I’m passionate about creating a space where shame has no place and where you feel able to share openly with me. With over 12 years’ experience as a Senior Mental Health Nurse working both in the NHS and private sector, I bring a deep understanding of the complexities of mental health and emotional wellbeing to my practise.

My approach is integrative, which means I use different psychological theories, tools and techniques to best meet your needs and personality. I don’t believe one size fits all, and being creative in our work together is important for therapy to be effective. I incorporate elements of person-centered therapy, psychodynamic theory in exploring and understanding how past experiences play a role in how we think, feel and relate to ourselves and others, and attachment theory in how our experiences of our first relationships impact us throughout our lives. I also practice with a trauma-informed approach and will often use cognitive behavioural therapy when working with some sexual dysfunctions.

I work with all genders, sexualities, cultures, religions and relationship types.

I’m a Registered Member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT).

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