Relationship and sex therapy in London

We have 7 therapists offering relationship and sex therapy across London, starting at just £45.

Low cost relationship and sex therapy in London

B&W photo of Ally Waring, Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist in training offering low cost sex and relationship therapy

ALLY WARING

Trainee Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

Sex and relationships are at the heart of who we are and how we connect. Our minds and bodies are just as intertwined – yet too often they’re treated separately or pushed aside.

I work with the whole of you, using flexible and creative approaches to gently untangle whatever you bring, with warmth, openness, and clarity.

In-person sessions

  • £45 for individuals
  • £65 for relationships

I also offer online therapy

  • £35 for individuals
  • £55 for relationships

As a queer woman living with a chronic condition, I know what it’s like to feel othered.

I offer a judgement-free space for clients of all genders, sexualities, relationship styles, lifestyles, and kinks.

I work with a wide range of issues from performance anxiety and sexual pain to improving communication and conflict in relationships.

With a background in the creative industries and in my last year of an Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy Post-Graduate diploma, I draw on playful, embodied techniques, tailored to what works best for you.

And as a qualified personal trainer, I can also integrate body-based exercises to help you reconnect with yourself.

My experience includes crisis services, a domestic violence and sexual abuse charity, and training in Trauma Informed Practice – enabling me to support complex and sensitive experiences with care.

Whatever you bring, you’ll be met with curiosity, compassion, and a belief that change is possible.

I’m a Student member of COSRT, the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists

B&W photo of David Long, Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist in training

DAVID LONG

Trainee Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

No two people or relationships are the same, so I work as an integrative therapist and draw on different techniques and interventions to provide an approach that is tailored to your needs.

I work with clients from all walks of life, and I have a particular interest in supporting those from gender, sexual, erotic and relationship diverse (GSERD) communities.

In-person sessions

  • £45 for individuals
  • £65 for relationships

I also offer online therapy

  • £35 for individuals
  • £55 for relationships

I’m committed to offering you a therapeutic environment that is inclusive, respectful, and empowering. A safe space to address topics and situations that can be awkward, uncomfortable and, at times, painful, with kindness, warmth and empathy.

As a proud and openly positive gay cis man working in a mental health charity, I bring both professional training and experience, and lived experience to my practice. 

I’m a final-year student of a Level 7 Post-Graduate Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy.

I’m a Student member of COSRT, the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists

B&W photo of Eshana Spiers, Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist in training offering low cost sex and relationship therapy

ESHANA SPIERS

Trainee Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

I offer a space where you are invited to slow down and gently explore the often tender and sometimes complex terrain of sex and relationships.

Together, we will explore your experiences, desires, and concerns with care and curiosity. I will support you in developing a deeper understanding of yourself and in moving towards the kind of sex and relationships that feel right for you.

I work in person at the Practice Rooms in London Bridge on Monday evenings, Thursday afternoons and evenings, and alternate Saturday mornings.

In-person sessions

  • £45 for individuals
  • £65 for relationships

I also offer online therapy

  • £35 for individuals
  • £55 for relationships

So many of us were never given a healthy or affirming model for sexuality and relating. As a result, we can carry unspoken longings, fears, or anxieties that leave us disconnected from what we both want and need.

Connection, intimacy, and sexuality have always been at the heart of my work.

Over the years, I’ve worked as a Psychosexual Coach, taught relationships and sex education in schools, delivered consent workshops at Cambridge University, and managed a sexual health drop‑in service for young people. This breadth of experience allows me to offer a space that is safe, grounded, and compassionate.

I support people with a wide range of concerns, including low desire or arousal, pain during sex, orgasm difficulties, erection concerns, premature or delayed ejaculation, questions around sexuality or gender identity, navigating kinks and fetishes, compulsive sexual behaviours, and sexual health worries.

I’m about to complete a Post-Graduate Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy, and I’m a Student member of COSRT, the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists.

B&W photo of Heidi Kwan, Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist in training offering low cost sex and relationship therapy

HEIDI KWAN

Trainee Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

My practice is rooted in warmth, empathy, and non-judgment, creating a safe and supportive space for you to explore your experiences of sex, intimacy, identity, and relationships.

Whether you’re working through low desire, performance anxiety, communication difficulties, or exploring your sexual identity, I will work with you at your pace and with respect for your values and goals.

In-person sessions

  • £45 for individuals
  • £65 for relationships

I also offer online therapy

  • £35 for individuals
  • £55 for relationships

I am committed to offering inclusive, affirming therapy that recognises and supports the many ways people experience and express sexuality and connection.

My approach is integrative, which means I draw on a range of therapeutic models, including CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy), to tailor our work to your unique needs and preferences.

I have a background in healthcare and am currently training as a Dietitian, as well as a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist. This gives me a holistic understanding of how physical health, emotional wellbeing and relational dynamics often intertwine. This perspective informs my work, especially when supporting clients navigating issues related to body image, sexual functioning, self-esteem, or the impact of life stage transitions on intimacy and relationships.

I’m in the final year of a Post-Graduate Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy, and I’m a Student member of COSRT, the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists.

B&W photo of a woman: Ilka Kemp-Hall, Associate Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist in London

ILKA KEMP-HALL

Trainee Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

I support low cost relationship and sex therapy in London to people experiencing difficulties like unreliable erections, delayed ejaculation, low desire, painful sex, vaginismus and orgasm difficulties.

I also work with compulsive sexual behaviour, fertility, sexual health, sexuality and sexual identity issues, non-monogamy and alternative relationship structures, kink and BDSM, as well as working with clients who are trans, non-binary, fluid or have non-conforming identities.

I believe that everyone should be able to be themselves and welcome all gender identities, sexual orientations, kink preferences and relationship structures.

In-person sessions

  • £45 for individuals
  • £65 for relationships

I draw from various models of therapy that recognise the uniqueness of people and work to help you feel more connected to your emotional, romantic and sexual intimacy.

I can help you process past experiences, and move towards the kind of relationship you want with sex, and to feel empowered in a way that feels right for you.

I understand how difficult it can be to have the language to talk about these topics and I hope you’ll be able to find the answers you need here.

I advocate a safe, warm, confidential and non-judgemental space to allow you to be authentic and express your thoughts and feelings freely and without reservation.

My role is to help you identify your sexually authentic self; the way you feel about sex, and the relationship you want to have with sex.

I draw from various models of therapy that recognise the uniqueness of the individual and work to help you feel more connected to your emotional, romantic and sexual intimacy. I can help you process the past experiences that are affecting you, and move towards the kind of relationship you want with sex, and to feel empowered in a way that feels right for you.

I hold a Foundation Certificate in Counselling and Psychotherapy and I’m in my final year at the Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology training as a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist.

I’m a Student member of COSRT, the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists.

B&W photo of Jamila Elwahabi, Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist in training offering low cost sex and relationship therapy

JAMILA ELWAHABI

Trainee Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

Every relationship, including the one we have with ourselves, carries its own patterns, challenges, and longings.

When these feel confusing or heavy to hold alone, having a compassionate space to explore them can make all the difference.

I work online and in person South London.

In-person sessions

  • £45 for individuals
  • £65 for relationships

Online sessions

  • £35 for individuals
  • £55 for relationships

As a trainee Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, I offer a warm, caring approach and a genuine curiosity about who you are, your story, your culture, and the experiences that shape the way you connect.

Together, we create a gentle, supportive, non-judgemental space where relational, sexual, and emotional difficulties can be explored openly and understood with clarity and care.

My role is to be alongside you as we unpack what feels complex or overwhelming, nurturing your self-care and supporting the ways you connect with yourself and others.

I am in my final year of a Post Graduate Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy.

I’m a Student member of COSRT, the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists.

Relationship and sex therapy in London with a qualified therapist

B&W photo of Alicia Rogerson, Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

ALICIA ROGERSON

Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

My clients and I work together across relational and sexual concerns, including: intimacy difficulties, sexual problems (eg painful penetration, difficulty with orgasm, erections, or ejaculation), desire discrepancies, exploring sexuality/non-monogamy, infidelity and past experiences impacting current intimacy.

Choosing a therapist can seem overwhelming, so I offer new clients a free 15-minute call to ease any concerns and help you to feel confident about getting started.

In-person sessions

  • £95 for individuals
  • £115 for relationships

I also offer online therapy

  • £75 for individuals
  • £95 for relationships

My work as a Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist is underpinned by over a decade of study and clinical experience in Psychology.

I support individuals – and their partner(s) – of all identities and relationship styles: heterosexual, LGBTQ+, neurodivergent, monogamous, non-monogamous and polyamorous.

I understand how deeply our relationships—both with others and with our sexual selves—shape our wellbeing and day-to-day life. That’s why I take a person-centred and holistic approach, seeing each client as a whole and complex individual.

I work integratively, which means I draw from a range of psychological theories and therapeutic models, and creatively tailor my approach to suit each person’s unique needs, values, and personality.

Sessions are always collaborative, respectful, and grounded in emotional safety.

I’m a Registered Member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT).

Online sessions with Alicia start at £75 for individuals and £95 for relationship therapy.

Alicia also offers in-person sessions in London. These will cost £95 for individuals and £115 for couples.